state of the birthday address
Oct. 10th, 2007 12:27 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
thejunipertreeI don't want anyone to think that my last episode of Tara-acts-like-a-whiny-twat was in any way directed towards any of my friends who were not timely with the birthday wishes.
The entire entry was directed at my father; there were no passive aggressive undertones to it for those in my life who did not make with the birthdaying. I can't stand it when people pull that PA shit and the only time I actively do it is when I tell the cat that the Engineer is acting like an a-hole, in front of the Engineer. It's a game we play. I know we're kind of ridiculous. ;)
That being said, thank you. Everybody.
I think one of the steps I need to take in accepting the fact that my blood-family is truly fucked up beyond all repair and that there's simply nothing I can do to change it (and that I need to stop pissing and moaning about it) is to drive home the realization that I have a very large chosen family who are made of some pretty awesome awesome.
The entire entry was directed at my father; there were no passive aggressive undertones to it for those in my life who did not make with the birthdaying. I can't stand it when people pull that PA shit and the only time I actively do it is when I tell the cat that the Engineer is acting like an a-hole, in front of the Engineer. It's a game we play. I know we're kind of ridiculous. ;)
That being said, thank you. Everybody.
I think one of the steps I need to take in accepting the fact that my blood-family is truly fucked up beyond all repair and that there's simply nothing I can do to change it (and that I need to stop pissing and moaning about it) is to drive home the realization that I have a very large chosen family who are made of some pretty awesome awesome.
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Date: 2007-10-10 04:47 pm (UTC)Fully understand the angst, as my darling brother-in-law couldn't be bothered to wish my kid a happy 21st birthday two years ago. Needless to say, I haven't bothered to speak to him since!
needless to say?
Date: 2007-10-10 11:44 pm (UTC)